Monday, November 30, 2009

I hate cars!

Well Pete's subaru which has like a million miles on it just had the clutch go. Of course it happened on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. It is at the shop still and it is now Monday. We are still waiting to find out how much this baby is gonna run us. People have told us that the clutch can cost from $500-1,000. I am praying this isn't so. Not to mention we had to rent a car for the weekend because Pete had to work and Rachel had to get to and from a hockey tournament all weekend so we couldn't have just one car. We did, however get the greatest rate I think possible. $9.99 a day for a little toyota corolla. Every other place wanted $20 something a day but Enterprise in Latham had this great rate. :)Too bad we have to return the car tonight and still have no car for Pete to drive. Good thing he is off tomorrow. Rory (my step son) is coming up and we are having our Thanksgiving family dinner. Can't wait. My hubby can cook!!!

Thursday, November 26, 2009

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

Happy Thanksgiving to all! We are actually celebrating on Tuesday...I know totally unAmerican. We have good reason though. Rachel has a tournament starting tomorrow so I couldn't drive down to the city and the kids were at their dad's today and I didn't see cooking dinner for just me, Pete and the little ones. Tuesday night, Pete's son is driving up and we will all celebrate then. Today we went to Cracker Barrel because it was one of the few places that were open on Thanksgiving. I thought we would be the only losers, I mean people not eating with family but the place was mobbed. You got a turkey dinner, drink and dessert for only $8.99. Couldn't beat it.

Rachel

Andrew

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Brickbreaker Baby

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vs1IhRsev8Y

Teaching Mommy: HA HA HA HA HA! funny#links

Teaching Mommy: HA HA HA HA HA! funny#links

FACEBOOK FUNNIES

I must admit I do like facebook. I have a blackberry and status updates come right to my phone. I usually don't see what is on someone's wall unless they post a new status or I have commented to something at which time I can see what others have said to that post afterwards. I must admit that one of my best friends is the funniest person alive whether she knows it or not and her post from yesterday morning made me almost piss my pants. (Not that that is hard to do these days, being very pregnant and having to cross my legs when I sneeze after having delivered five babies with big irish heads). Back to what I was getting at. I can always count on KBOB to give me a good chuckle. She has a friend, and I am sure we all do that posts random status comments on facebook about doing laundry or some other daily boring day to day event well KBOB's response was in her own status: It said she is "standing then sitting, then walking, then talking, then breathing, then possibly thinking, then..." Maybe I am the only one who found this totally amusing but I had to share. :) In adding humor to facebook some people offered me interesting status comments to put in. My favorite being: "just finished my kegals and my vagina feels tighter already". I laughed my ass off at that one but don't have the gonads to actually use it in my status comments. What are some funny or amusing status comments that you have seen?

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Birth Stories

From my first post it was commented to share what I meant about my husband and I delivering our first child. Not as crazy as some birth stories. I wasn't at home or alone like my mother when she gave birth to my brother Jude. The year was 1995, and it was the 26th of October. My husband (ex husband now) was at his martial arts practice and I was six weeks from my due date. I was on the phone to my mom in NYC chit chatting and felt something warm but when I stood up it stopped. I told my mother I thought my water had broken and she insisted it was way too early and that I just peed on myself. (Note to all - go with your gut) Luckily I didn't listen to her. I called my ob and they told me to come to the hospital. I called the hubby home and off we went. No contractions, nothing. They tested the fluid and the fern test showed it was amniotic fluid. I had torn the bag of water alittle. When I stood it stopped because the head blocked the hole. Needless to say they told me that I would have to deliver within the next 24 hours to avoid getting an infection. My doctor checked me and told me I was only 3cm and it was my first and would be a while and that he was going to sleep. Now it is me and my then husband and I was all of 21. We hadn't finished our lamaze class but the stories that stuck in my mind were those that were told of crapping when you push and that was my worst fear. I was young and naive. I didn't worry that I would have a child with anything wrong with him or her. I just assumed I would have a healthy baby. My fear was that I would go to the bathroom on the table in front of the staff. So 10 minutes and three killer contractions later I felt like I had to go to the bathroom and I tried to walk to the bathroom while my husband is telling me not to push and out came my son's head. He delivered 6 weeks early but was perfect from head to toe. (Well not toes cause we later came to find out his toes were webbed) but hey he had ten of them.

Where to begin?

I am what people call computer challenged so this blogging is all new to me but people on my parent boards have them so I thought to myself, why not? I am hoping to get input from others on what I should do or not do or do more of to make this a more interesting read. I went for my 24 week obgyn appt yesterday and while I was sitting there in the waiting room for over an hour it dawned on me that in a little over three months I am going to have another baby. I swear I think I have been in denial this whole time. Now my youngest is currently almost 11 months old and the two will be 15 months apart and that should be no biggie considering my first two were only 12 months apart, right? Well I was alot younger then. 13 years younger to be exact when I had my second a year after my first. I was young and energetic and supermom. We did play groups and mom groups and went to the library and park weekly. We did field trips to the airport and museums and took swimming lessons and now I don't have time to both shower and eat in the morning.

Well I found out that I am hypertensive. For those not knowing what that means it means I have high blood pressure. Why would I be stressed and why would I have high blood pressure? I just waited for an hour in a crowded waiting room to be called in to sit for another 15 minutes in a small office. I am overweight, eat horribly, am running around with five children and expecting my sixth. I work full time to watch my entire paycheck cover the cost of daycare and the cost of hockey for the four of my children who play.

Paying for hockey is like building a new house. You find a house that you would love to buy and the price seems ok or atleast within what you expected but then when you go to sign the papers and they are like oh, you wanted a toilet in the bathroom and a front door or carpet or padding and before you know it you are up thousands of dollars above what you thought the house would cost you. See, hockey is the same way. My daughter made the A team and I thought how wonderful and was so proud of her but be careful what you wish for. Aside from the registration and monthly ice assessments and equipment purchases and upgrades and tournaments and extra ice time at a training facility and warm ups and fundraisers we are close to two thousand dollars for the year and the season just started in late September. Now I will complain and complain often about the cost of hockey but I love the freaking sport. We have season tickets for the River Rats (AHL) team and although we often miss games because of our own hockey schedule, it is nice to get out and watch the team. My daughter's team is going Wednesday night as a team and have box seats. Me and the other children will it in our regular seats. My husband hates everything about hockey. He offers to stay home with the baby who he insists will never play hockey, however every morning the baby grabs his plastic hockey stick and pushes a ball around the house. I think my husband will have to continue to work way into his old age so the little one can have his ice assessments paid for.

The only good thing that came about from my appointment is that they are going to induce me the week before my due date. I know alot of people have issues with induction and believe a baby will come when they come but for starters I will most likely be battling hypertension the entire pregnancy. Secondly, I have five other children that I will now be able to arrange child care for when I go into the hospital instead of finding someone in the middle of the night that can come over and sit with them and the part that makes me so happy about the induction is that I will get to have an epidural. I have VERY quick deliveries and last time they were just able to get the test dose in and I had to push. With my history of rapid deliveries this doctor feels it best to have me come in before so it can be in a controlled environment. Meaning my husband and I don't have to deliver this one like we did with my oldest. :)

Sorry for being all over the place, I thought I wouldn't have anything to say and then it took off in all different directions.